Distance therapy by video or instant messaging

Individual counselling client feels empowered after cognnitive behavioural therapy, woman doing short term therapy looks relieved, middle-aged man thinks about his psychotherapy session

Beth's Ontario licence allows her to work throughout Canada

Beth Mares RP does both long term and short term therapy by video and IM (chat). She works with a wide range of issues, including relationships, depression and anxiety.

She also helps with weight problems and eating disorders; difficulties with intimacy; ACoA and other family of origin issues, including problems arising from a client's religious background; physical problems like insomnia, headaches and IBS that are caused or aggravated by stress; concerns about sex; and the concerns of mid life and of ageing.

Marriage counselling & individual relationship therapy

Beth offers various types of relationship counselling to enhance intimacy and marital satisfaction, for male/female and same-sex couples. Much of her work relates to improving communication and sexual satisfaction and to overcoming problems caused by deceit/lying and infidelity. Another common topic is how to prevent adult children of alcoholics issues and other family of origin issues from damaging relationships. She also works with immigrant couples on challenges such as lack of a support system, understanding subtle differences in culture, and clash of cultures between individuals and their families or their in-laws--issues that can be especially challenging for same sex couples. Beth also offers support with divorce or a break-up, and secular marriage preparation and troubleshooting. See marriage counselling.

Some couples just need to enhance their skills in communication, problem-solving and negotiation. For those needing more in-depth help with intimacy, attachment or building trust, Beth uses conjoint couple therapy (a combination of couple sessions and individual psychotherapy).

Beth has a special interest in relationship addiction/ love addiction.

Therapy for sexual problems in relationships

These include lack of interest in sex, known as low sexual desire or sexual anorexia, disruptions to a couple's sex life caused by circumstances, infidelity in its various forms, and out of control sexual behaviour.

Help for sex addictions and sexual preoccupations

These include fetishes, erotic imagery or sexual thoughts that a person finds disturbing, pornography addiction, excessive or ego-dystonic (guilt-inducing) use of pornography, unsafe sex, excessive or obsessive flirtation, obsessive masturbation, sexual activities that the person or family cannot afford, or addiction to strip bars, sexual massage parlours, or prostitutes. She also works with many different forms of relationship addiction—see love addiction. She uses acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) as well as other methods as required. See sex addiction help.

Psychotherapy for anxiety and tools to control it
Anxiety disorders include fears and phobias, social anxiety, GAD (general anxiety disorder), panic attacks, and constant worrying about health. Distance therapy is particularly useful for agoraphobia and social anxiety, as it removes the need for the client to go out and meet a new therapist. Working on these problems can involve skill-building so that the client is prepared to succeed in the feared situation; gradual desensitization at the pace that is right for the client; finding and removing false beliefs that underpin the anxiety; relaxation training; dealing with past trauma; and/or improving or ending relationships in which the dynamic is reinforcing lack of confidence or causing the person to feel responsible for things they cannot control.

 

Beth is enrolled to provide free remote counselling for status First Nations and Inuit.

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See also: https://www.therapytorontotherapist.ca, Dear Beth blog, & counseling resources

 

Distance counselling in Southern and Northern Ontario


Beth's online mental health service is now provided via Doxy, which complies with Ontario privacy standards for psychotherapy and medical appointments. Common topics for internet therapy are relationships, including communication, intimacy, sex therapy, pornography addiction and other sex addictions; adult children of alcoholics issues; stress management, anxiety disorders, insomnia and depression; assertiveness training; parenting and family problems; coming out and other GLBTQ+ issues; and mental health information.

Some people in Northern Ontario and small towns througout Canada choose the privacy of videocounselling with an outsider even when there is a qualified psychotherapist in town; on-site counselling at home or at work is also useful for people who find it difficult or inconvenient to attend a clinic.

Partial list of communities served:

Toronto
Ottawa
Mississauga
North York
Hamilton
Brampton
Kitchener
London
Windsor
Oshawa
Vaughan
Barrie
Oakville
Burlington
Sudbury
St. Catharines
Cambridge
Guelph
Kingston
Chatham-Kent
Thunder Bay
Waterloo
Pickering
Brantford
Sarnia
Niagara Falls
Peterborough
Sault Ste. Marie
Kawartha Lakes
Norfolk County
Welland
North Bay
Belleville
Cornwall Haldimand County
Timmins
Quinte West
St. Thomas
Brant
Woodstock
Orangeville
Midland
Leamington
Stratford

Prince Edward
Brockville
Owen Sound
Keswick
Clarence-Rockland
Huntsville
Bradford
Port Colborne
Thorold
Cobourg
Fort Erie
Collingwood
Pembroke
Kenora
Napanee
Elliot Lake
Hawkesbury
Ingersoll
Amherstburg
Petawawa
Paris
Smiths Falls
Temiskaming
Angus
Bells Corners
Carleton Place
Arnprior
Kapuskasing
Bracebridge
Dryden
Goderich
Renfrew
Fort Frances
Kirkland Lake


Toronto East Beaches


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Beth Mares RP
Beaches Psychotherapy
82-2146A Queen St. East,
Toronto, ON M4E 1E3

Beth Mares Counselling,
403-294 Main Street
Toronto, ON M4C 4X5

 Beth Mares Counselling
Rosedale Medical Building,
605-600 Sherbourne St, Toronto ON M4X 1W4

 

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Copyright, last updated April, 2024